My Emotionally Unavailable Dad

My Emotionally Unavailable Dad

Today is Father’s Day. While people with the healthy family set up celebrate this day to give love and honor to the most important man in their lives, it’s excruciating for girls who weren’t given a good paternal experience. It reminds them of what...
Tears Of Hope

Tears Of Hope

My phone alerted me today while at work. An email from my medical team. GULP. This, to me, literally feels like waiting for a court verdict. Is it death penalty or am I acquitted to keep living? I take an Arimidex pill daily along with a monthly Zoladex injection in...
My Take On Cosmetic Surgery

My Take On Cosmetic Surgery

[NOTE: I mention “Asian” because I’m speaking from a point of view of an Asian woman as I am one. Not because I disregard other races.] My very recent video post on Facebook entitled “IGTV EP50: I’m Not White, I’m Filipina”...
When Someone Treats You Badly

When Someone Treats You Badly

As I became vulnerable by sharing my story on social media, I was surprised with the avalanche of private messages that people sent me revealing their life ordeals and soliciting my thoughts on them. I am very honored to be trusted with such deeply personal problems....
My WINNING Morning Affirmations

My WINNING Morning Affirmations

If there’s one irony about us human beings that I find really puzzling, it’s our obsession to be so great at complimenting everyone around us and be the harshest critics to our very own selves. Why the F do we do that?! I noticed this with myself going...