To the people I have hurt, I hope you keep reading. There’s a saying that youth is wasted on the young. And while I’m guilty to admit that I wasted too much time on unnecessary partying and chasing after the wrong guys in the past, I also knowingly and unknowingly hurt people who used to be my friends, acquaintances, co-workers or even strangers.

Youth is filled with uncontrolled emotions… the drama, victim mentality, arrogance and greed that gets the best of me back then. There were times when I was so tactless with my words, thoughts and actions. Having realized all these, I humbly ask for forgiveness from you, who I may have possibly hurt at some point during those reckless times.

I’m sorry if my words and/or actions stung.
I’m sorry if I misunderstood. 
I’m sorry I was ungrateful. 
I’m sorry I was so unaware. 
I’m sorry I took it all for granted.
I’m sorry I didn’t see the consequences of my behavior.
I’m sorry I was unreasonably harsh.
I’m sorry I was a coward to tell you the truth that I had to say a white lie.
I’m sorry things didn’t work out the way it’s suppose to be.
I’m sorry I wasn’t there when you needed me.
I’m sorry I let my emotions take control of me.
I’m sorry I was too demanding and needy.
I’m sorry I didn’t communicate better.
I’m sorry for my inflated ego.
I’m sorry that my words came out the wrong way.
I’m sorry it took me so long to apologize.
And I’m sorry I didn’t apologize in person.
May you find it in your heart to forgive me and set me free.

To those who have hurt me, it took me so long but I finally forgave myself for allowing you to hurt me the way you did. Thank you for teaching me how to watch my own back. Now, I know what loving myself truly means, how to set healthy boundaries and why it matters. Now, I know better. Thank you for the lessons learned. With or without an apology, you are all completely forgiven and I wish you and your loved ones peace and wellness. Let’s keep living.